Hey Inner-Me,

I missed talking to you. I will do so in more detail sometime later but just wanted to tell you that a lot has been happening.

And yes, you know 'Teacher', don't you? And you know how guilty I have been feeling all these years? That has not changed as I still am sorry for what I did. 

BUT....it has been brought to my attention that the 'Teacher', whom I respect, has been mouthing lies against me. Not that I blame the person but the respect has reduced. And the person also lied to me about some things. 

When would I learn?

Anyways, Cheers!!!

"Diplomatic moves to isolate Pakistan"

This has been heard so often that it sounds nothing more than mere rhetoric. Of course, there is no harm in trying all that. However, Pakistan would not learn a lesson if a world leader snubs their PM (he, in any case, does not have any importance) or if Bangladesh boycotts the SAARC summit in Pakistan. It is time for some strong actions. 

If India (read government) wants to avoid full-fledged military action then find other ways to teach Pakistan a lesson. Hit them commercially. Ban direct or indirect exports to Pakistan. Put more taxes on multi-nationals who operate both in India as well as Pakistan and make them choose one market. It is okay to take a blow to deliver a knock-out punch. Throw away the Indus Water Treaty. Do something significant.

Yesterday, a minister made a statement that "our patience is running out". Well....you are not the only one.

#UriAttack

जाने से पहले कई सालों में,
एक तरह से तुम थी नहीं,
तो लगता ही नहीं की,
अब तुम हो नहीं,

उन बीते हुए सालों में,
तुम भले साथ थी नहीं,
लेकिन पता था की तुम हो,
तो लगता है की तुम हो, अब भी हो

बहुत कुछ कहा तुमसे और कुछ नहीं कह पाया। कही और अनकही किसी बात का आज मलाल नहीं है। बस आखरी के कुछ दिनों में एक बार हाथ न पकड़ पाने, एक बार 'bye' ना कर पाने का गम हमेशा रहेगा। हमेशा रुलायेगा। लगा नहीं था की तुम चली जाओगी। लगा था की फ़िर मिलेंगे हम। कुछ दिन रही तुम....शायद इंतज़ार किया तुमने। बाकी किसी भी बात का नहीं, क्योंकि हमको पता है की तुम समझी.....लेकिन उस इंतज़ार करवाने के लिए और हाथ ना पकड़ पाने के लिए हम सच में sorry हैं।

कई बार अकेले में तुमको पुकारा है। हो सके तो मिल लेना हमसे। हम तो खोजते हुए आएंगे ही।

Aaj kucch baahar hi nahi, andar bhi toot gaya. Hamesha ke liye.

Daraar to thhi. Dikhti bhale na ho, lekin thhi.

Aaj sab badal gaya.

Bitter Taste in the Mouth

Sometimes, one just loses the motivation. Isn't it? 

In my career, I have come across multiple working styles and dedication levels. Most people put in the minimum effort required. Out of those, most feel bad when increments and incentives are announced. In my opinion, they do not deserve to crib. Others, who master the art of licking asses, get good increments, incentives and promotions. That, even after putting in minimum effort. Not that, they are outstanding or they get things done smartly. They are just good lickers.

Then there are people, who are driven. Driven by the want to excel, driven by the recognition, driven by monetary benefits, driven by resume-value. The driver could be anything. These people put in a lot of smart as well as hardwork. Such people should be recognized and it is the job of their managers to keep such people motivated. Unfortunately, that does not happen most of the time. 

If you are subordinating and screwing your family time and health for your work, you hate it when your efforts are not recognized. There are some qualitative recognitions. "You are a perfectionist". "You are the best consultant that we have".  That is all good. But when it does not translate into something meaningful, you feel bad. You do not necessarily feel jealous with others who got better deals but you do feel bitter. That is exactly what I am going through. I am feeling bitter, I am feeling cheated and I am feel demotivated. I hope this is a passing phase. I do not like this phase as I seldom feel demotivated about work. I hope that I would be able to come out of this state of mind very soon. Till then, *&^%$#@

Why 'Stuart Little' Binny?

I like the look of India's test squad for the tour of West Indies. I agree with most of the selections, barring one. I fail to understand the repeated selection of Stuart Binny in the test squad. In West Indies, genuine pacers are required. 'So-Called-Allrounders', who are neither reliable batsmen nor a good wicket-taking option, are a luxury that the selectors should have avoided. Chief selector should have kept aside his personal biases, emotions etc while doing the all-important job.

I do understand that India lacks genuine allrounders, especially fast bowling ones. Hardik Pandya is not test material (not even one day material). Irfan Pathan is a spent force. Rishi Dhawan is not good enough as well. If the options for allrounders were limited, they should have gone ahead with a specialist bowler. Probably someone who added a new dimension to the bowling options. For example, Kuldeep Yadav, a chinaman bowler, could have been tried. He did not get too many opportunities in IPL 2016. However, he did impress in the few chances thag he got. There are several options which could have been better than Stuart Binny, S/O Chief Selector.

Disappointed but still wish each one of them the best of luck.

Happy Birthday Teacher

Kohli is not from this planet

Virat Kohli is a superhero. His record in his still short career is sufficient to make most batsmen jealous. And at present, he is in an exceptional for. 4 centuries in T20 format in the last few games is something that no other batsmen can boast of. His cover drives are majestic. The way he paces his innings and mixes control with timely aggression is the best part of him as a batsman.

He has matured a lot in past year or so. Not that I had an issue with his aggression in any case. His form, captaincy, temperament, positive attitude and hunger to win games must not be overlooked by the 5 wise men of Indian cricket. It is time to think about and start planning for 2019 World Cup and its the perfect time for Kohli to take over captaincy in all 3 formats. That doesn't 'necessarily' mean that MS Dhoni should be axed from the squad. If Dhoni makes himself available to play under Kohli, Kohli would be able to use Dhoni's experience in the transition phase. Having said that, it is equally important that the wicket-keeper, who would take Dhoni's place in the team for 2019 WC be given a decent run. To prepare for the WC, Kohli should get his team and soon.

Hate Such Arguments

Today, I received the following message from someone on Whatsapp;

"We may not be aware of the existence of this noble and great man, Kalyanasundaram honoured by US Govt. I feel equally ashamed that India Govt has conferred 'Bharat Ratna' on Sachin Tendulkar, who seeks and gets exemption of customs duty on a 'Ferrari' which he got free, who reportedly earns crores of rupees(in hundreds) every year.

Mr.Kalayanasundaram worked as a Librarian for 30 years. Every month in his 30 year experience (service), he donated his entire salary to help the needy. He worked as a server in a hotel to meet his needs. He donated even his pension amount of about ten lakh rupees to the needy.

He is the first person in the world to spend the entire earnings for a social cause. In recognition to his service, the American government honoured him with the ‘Man of the Millennium’ award. He received a sum of Rs 30 crores as part of this award which he distributed entirely for the needy as usual.

Moved by his passion to help others, Super Star Rajinikanth adopted him as his father. He still stays as a bachelor and dedicated his entire life for serving the society.

All our Politicians, Film stars, Business magnets, cricketers Press and we all Indians should be PROUD and also should be ashamed of ourselves. American Government has honored him but we Indians even don't know that such a personality exist amongst us.

Atleast have the courtesy to pass this on and on till the whole world comes to know about this Great Good Samaritan.

Hat's off Kalayanasundaram.. We Indians are extremely proud of you and proudly say "THIS HAPPENS ONLY IN INDIA"

While there is no denying the fact that Mr. Palam Kalyanasundaram has made great (infact unbelievable) contributions, I hate when such cases are presented in 'why that and why not this' manner. Its alright to highlight the accomplishments and contributions of someone but it does not mean we should trivialize the contribution of others. Kailash Satyarthi has won Nobel Peace Prize yet he has not been conferred with Bharat Ratna. There are several others. That does not mean that the contribution of Sachin Tendulkar should be trivialized. His contribution in his field is second to none and he truly deserves Bharat Ratna. 

Cheers

Ginger

HUM

Champion....Champion

Back Massage?

Asked my wife for a back massage....my fault :(

Facebook Lookback

10 Companies own almost EVERYTHING!!!

Haha

My Little Ballerina

All the women I love

Review: VR Box (Virtual Reality Headset)

Bought this new virtual reality headset. VR Box. This is a quite decent product, which gives some enjoyable experience without burning a hole in the pocket. I bought it for RM 70. Compared to similar products from Oculus and Samsung, it is quite reasonably priced. However, one must be careful while drawing such comparisons.

Oculus is probably the best-in-class and gives an exceptional immersive experience. Comparatively, VR Box is definitely not as immersive. But what more you can ask for RM 70?

You need a smartphone to enjoy VR Box and that is not an issue as who doesn't have a smart phone these days. I recommend a bluetooth headset and a bluetooth controller to make the experience more enjoyable and hassle-free.

One downside of the headset is that a long use gives motion sickness and nausea. I am not sure if this is an issue with this headset or do all Virtual Reality headset include this issue in the package.

Overall, a pretty decent gadget that is reasonably priced.

This is exactly how Ananya and I share the bed

Cheers

Short Review: Eye in the Sky

"Never tell a soldier that he does not know the cost of war". Great movie. It was like watching '12 Angry Men' but with a ticking bomb in the middle. Brilliantly shows what military personnel go through while making critical - life or death - decisions, where the 'best option'  is not always the 'morally correct' one.

RS to Dr. Swamy, ORS to opposition

The lack of majority in Rajya Sabha has been an achilles heel for the development agenda of the current government. Majority is still not in our favour but am glad and relieved that the 'One-Man-Army' i.e., Dr. Subramanian Swamy is going to Rajya Sabha!!!  Opposition will have to drink 'ORS ka ghol' before coming to RS!!! 

My Best Friend: Amit Upadhyay

Some Japanese Food

India Pakistan Cricket Trivia

In 1992, Manjrekar was out for a golden duck against Pakistan and India won. In 2003, Ganguly was out for a golden duck against Pakistan and India won. In 2011, Yuvi was out for a golden duck against Pakistan and India won. Today Raina was out for a golden duck against Pakistan and India won. Golden ducks have proved lucky!!! #IndiaPakistan #WT20

Goa Trip with Friends

Dear Blog, I know I have not been sharing much with you. I want to but for some reason or another I have been unable to do so. I know you'll understand....like you always have. :)

With my best buddy Vikas Khaitan @ Novotel Shrem Resort, Goa

Goa Trip with Family and Friends

Roshanimesh: 2007 and 2016

Goa Trip with Family