Dear Secret Reader,
Thanks for showing interest in my blog posts.
But let me tell you, it is extremely easy to comment on someone when you are sitting comfortably, thousands of miles away. You do not know me well enough. You do not care about me, what I have gone through and what I am going through. You do not care about my agonies or joys. Not that I want you to. Just like you, I do not care what you think and do.
I just talk about things that matter to me and affect me in a good or bad way. You read stuff and carry on with your life. Perfectly fine. But sometimes, you do react. Like on this occasion. Why? Ask yourself. Is it because 'you felt' that I am questioning you? Well, I did not specifically question you. In fact I did not question anyone. I just expressed my true and honest feelings. If that makes you uncomfortable, I do not care.
If you are hurt with my expression, then ask yourself....will you do something about it? No, you wont. You will attend the next party, watch the new movie, make plans for the next holidays. You can do that, after all it is your life. But do realize that EVERYONE wants to do that.
And why are you hurt? If it is because I expressed something so openly even if it is my honest feeling? If yes, then go to hell. In case you are hurt because I may have said somthing about someone/something that matters to you, then ask yourself, what are you doing to change the situation and take care of that someone or something? Nothing, right? Not even temporarily? Then please shut up.
I am not going to anyone and shouting at their face. I am just 'expressing' myself without actually talking to anyone. And I share my honest feelings. If later I realise that I made a mistake, I say sorry to the person but do not delete the post. It just reminds me that I made a mistake and I should be more careful/sensitive in future. Unlike most others, I do not like to feel something else but write goodie-goodie politically correct stuff. If I do that, I would be only cheating myself. More than anything else, I write stuff to reduce my blood pressure and avoid a possible heart attack. That is my reason.
But why am I giving all these reasons? I do not need to. Why am I reacting? It is because I did not point a finger at you but you did that.
You do not care about my frustrations but you have a problem when I express them? I do not want or expect you to do anything. But if it hurts you in any manner, try to change it or go back to your life and have fun. Whatever you do, DONT JUDGE ME!!!
