In recent years, a curious custom has taken hold: the request for friends, acquaintances, and even near-strangers to create videos, voice notes, or written tributes for milestone celebrations (birthday, kids birthday, anniversary, parents anniversary etc.). The intention is harmless enough—collecting warm sentiments to honour someone’s birthday or anniversary—but the practice carries an awkward side.
Not everyone asked to participate has a meaningful connection with the individual being celebrated. Some may feel indifferent; others may even have a strained history with them. Yet the expectation remains to produce a glowing message filled with affectionate remarks. The result is often a collection of comments that, while polite, lack sincerity. They may sound pleasant, but they are hollow.
This is indeed discussed but in smaller groups and side-conversations, where the prevailing tone is often one of irritation.
I always wonder: what value is found in hearing praise that was crafted out of obligation? If the words are not genuine, the exercise becomes less a celebration of a relationship and more a performance designed to fill a montage.
Perhaps the more thoughtful approach is to encourage contributions only from those who share real bonds with the honouree. Authentic sentiment, even when modest, far outweighs elaborate statements offered out of social pressure. Meaningful occasions deserve meaningful voices—not rehearsed lines delivered due to an obligation.
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